My kids abandoned me for their father

Assalamualaykom..

I am a mother of a girl and a boy (9 and 8 ) and I got divorced from my husband about a year and a half ago.. Since then I haven't seen my kids, practically because he like hypnotized them as he was unemployed for about 4 years before I filed for divorce and I was considered the monster who works and cleans and responsible for studying and washing and and and ... (Practically he said it to my face that I was just a nanny) ... Additionally I was beaten in front of my kids many times, called the worst names all of the time... but he was the fun man to them, he was the TV man the candy man... the man who gets us the money every month in order to live!!!!!!!

I had nothing after those years (nearly 10 yrs) except to file for Divorce and I gave up all my financial rights and even I gave him the rest of my money in order to leave me and the kids...

And he took the money , but he was very sure that he left me all alone.. As my kids left me and they told me we don't want to live with you anymore.. we hate you... and since then I tried to see them , but no use.. I even went to their school as a surprising Birthday... But no use.....

Although I have all the right to take them in my custody.. But I don't want to hurt them..
I really don't know why am I writing to you... But I feel that I miss them soooo much and that am getting crazy for not seeing them for soooo long...

Am right now studying and doing all the educational stuff that I should have done 11 years ago, but he was standing in my way and forbidding me to go for it...

Only for their return am getting ready, so when they come back (IF AT ALL) they will find a strong mom who built herself by herself...

And Allah will help me and will support them..

Thanks for listening

Abandoned

Posted by abandoned / February 25, 2012

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