Assalamualaykom..
I am a mother of a girl
and a boy (9 and 8 ) and I got divorced from my husband about a year and a half
ago.. Since then I haven't seen my kids, practically because he like hypnotized
them as he was unemployed for about 4 years before I filed for divorce and I
was considered the monster who works and cleans and responsible for studying
and washing and and and ... (Practically he said it to my face that I was just
a nanny) ... Additionally I was beaten in front of my kids many times, called
the worst names all of the time... but he was the fun man to them, he was the
TV man the candy man... the man who gets us the money every month in order to
live!!!!!!!
I had nothing after those
years (nearly 10 yrs) except to file for Divorce and I gave up all my financial
rights and even I gave him the rest of my money in order to leave me and the
kids...
And he took the money ,
but he was very sure that he left me all alone.. As my kids left me and they
told me we don't want to live with you anymore.. we hate you... and since then
I tried to see them , but no use.. I even went to their school as a surprising
Birthday... But no use.....
Although I have all the
right to take them in my custody.. But I don't want to hurt them..
I really don't know why am I writing to you... But I feel that I miss them soooo much and that am getting crazy for not seeing them for soooo long...
I really don't know why am I writing to you... But I feel that I miss them soooo much and that am getting crazy for not seeing them for soooo long...
Am right now studying and
doing all the educational stuff that I should have done 11 years ago, but he
was standing in my way and forbidding me to go for it...
Only for their return am
getting ready, so when they come back (IF AT ALL) they will find a strong mom
who built herself by herself...
And Allah will help me and
will support them..
Thanks for listening
Abandoned
Posted by abandoned / February
25, 2012
http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/my-kids-abandoned-me/
